Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Tuesday, June 21, 2011
The Power of Energy
Every thought in our mind comprises of energy, a powerful source that drives our lifestyle for better or worse. It can be curious, anxious, positive, negative, and aggressive and many other forms of energy that permeate our environment communicating with the universe what we are seeking. Although it is hard to believe, we can control our thoughts and filter what messages we want to share with the universe so the universe can work parallel to our desires.
Positive thoughts yield positive outcomes.
Negative thoughts yield not so favorable outcomes.
Anxiety, fear and worry delay the universe in responding to our needs because such emotions start resisting the energy that is working itself towards us. Communicating with energy is a two way street: what we communicate is what we attract. If you have encountered challenging dating experiences which led them to give up on seeking love, then chances are opportunities in your love life will slowly cease to exist. Time to time, I do have clients confess that they are tired of dating and they are content being alone. Out of this sample population, I believe 10% of those clients mean what they say. Yes, happiness comes from within, where one should not rely on another human being to make them happy. To find balanced love, it is essential for the person seeking such asset to align their mindset with their desired outcomes.
After all we plant the seeds of our thoughts in our mind, which ultimately manifest our subconscious desires. People may interpret the term 'desires' in a positive connotation; to the contrary, one must realize that desires can be positive or negative. For example, if a woman believes that she will never find love, then she will not find it. Depending on how strong that specific belief resides within her, love will not easily find her. Where as, if a man tells himself that his life partner exists in the universe, sooner or later his partner will appear before him. It is only a matter of time the universe delivers what we attract in our lives--this can be in our personal, social, professional and other facets of our lives.
How can one change their energy? A minor adjustment can make a huge difference overtime. How we perceive, interpret and react to our environment is a by product of energy that swirls around us when we are awake and sleeping. As an exercise, you can keep a gratitude journal. If writing is not your forte, then before ending the day try to count three blessings from your day. These blessings are three things that you are thankful for: it can be a small gesture as someone holding the door open for you to having your errands run smoothly. Basically name three things or people that enlightened your day. There are blessings to count even on a bad day when things may not 'appear' well yet in fact the universe may be trying to guide you into the right direction. Start from noting three blessings a day and work yourself up to acknowledging five a day. It is amazing how our outlook changes when we are self aware of the positive things that exist in our life.
Soon you will realize that things that would irritate you automatically iron themselves out to serve you better. Gratitude can bring more abundance into your life, because the universe is infinite in delivering our wishes. It is human nature for us to demand things right here-right now due to living in a fast paced world that one may doubt the effectiveness of such exercises. With consistency and positive intent one is capable of attracting the good in their life while retaining the residual benefits of their actions. Energy works just like karma; it never dies and keeps traveling in different forms ultimately delivering the universe's message to your door.
Positive thoughts yield positive outcomes.
Negative thoughts yield not so favorable outcomes.
Anxiety, fear and worry delay the universe in responding to our needs because such emotions start resisting the energy that is working itself towards us. Communicating with energy is a two way street: what we communicate is what we attract. If you have encountered challenging dating experiences which led them to give up on seeking love, then chances are opportunities in your love life will slowly cease to exist. Time to time, I do have clients confess that they are tired of dating and they are content being alone. Out of this sample population, I believe 10% of those clients mean what they say. Yes, happiness comes from within, where one should not rely on another human being to make them happy. To find balanced love, it is essential for the person seeking such asset to align their mindset with their desired outcomes.
After all we plant the seeds of our thoughts in our mind, which ultimately manifest our subconscious desires. People may interpret the term 'desires' in a positive connotation; to the contrary, one must realize that desires can be positive or negative. For example, if a woman believes that she will never find love, then she will not find it. Depending on how strong that specific belief resides within her, love will not easily find her. Where as, if a man tells himself that his life partner exists in the universe, sooner or later his partner will appear before him. It is only a matter of time the universe delivers what we attract in our lives--this can be in our personal, social, professional and other facets of our lives.
How can one change their energy? A minor adjustment can make a huge difference overtime. How we perceive, interpret and react to our environment is a by product of energy that swirls around us when we are awake and sleeping. As an exercise, you can keep a gratitude journal. If writing is not your forte, then before ending the day try to count three blessings from your day. These blessings are three things that you are thankful for: it can be a small gesture as someone holding the door open for you to having your errands run smoothly. Basically name three things or people that enlightened your day. There are blessings to count even on a bad day when things may not 'appear' well yet in fact the universe may be trying to guide you into the right direction. Start from noting three blessings a day and work yourself up to acknowledging five a day. It is amazing how our outlook changes when we are self aware of the positive things that exist in our life.
Soon you will realize that things that would irritate you automatically iron themselves out to serve you better. Gratitude can bring more abundance into your life, because the universe is infinite in delivering our wishes. It is human nature for us to demand things right here-right now due to living in a fast paced world that one may doubt the effectiveness of such exercises. With consistency and positive intent one is capable of attracting the good in their life while retaining the residual benefits of their actions. Energy works just like karma; it never dies and keeps traveling in different forms ultimately delivering the universe's message to your door.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Five Creative Summer Date Ideas
The season of love is prevalent throughout the year though it becomes more apparent during the hot months of summer. We see couples waking around holding hands, basking in the sun and exploring new ways to spend their time together. Dating is fun whether it is fun indoors or out, it all depends on the activities that you share with your partner that leaves a lasting memory.
Here are five creative date ideas to consider as the Season of Love hits a high note:
1. Take your partner out to a sporting event, whether it is a basketball game at an arena, a baseball game at a stadium or an event of their choice. It is the ambiance that determines the mood at the event. With enough drinks, food and live entertainment there is not much room for things to go wrong. It is a relaxed atmosphere where couples can enjoy the event while socializing on the sidelines. If the person isn't a sports fanatic, there is always a first time experience for them. Sports, just like music, is what brings people together. Basically, keep the moment light and fun. Nothing beats experience, I must admit that I've enjoyed attending such games watching the Celtics, Spurs, Wizards and Lakers play (and I am not a sports fanatic). It's easy to let the excitement get to you when you're living in the moment.
2. Plan a weekend get away. Dependent upon how well you know your date along with your comfort level, it's exciting to vacate one's life for the weekend. There are many bed & breakfast in suburbia where couples can enjoy the view of nature, relax at a spa, go wine tasting and ultimately rest without any distractions. Some of these venues cost starting from $80 and up, depending on the location, season & type of rental.
3. It is nearly impossible for one to date a person who has no opinion or preference towards music. Concert season usually picks up during the spring and starts dying down as winter approaches. Take advantage of going to see world renown artists perform at arenas, conference centers and local venues (possibly right in your city). My recommendation is also give comedy clubs a try. I was invited to go see Jim Gaffigan in 2006 and I am glad that I did go. He was a rising comedian at that time with a following among the local clubs. All I was told by a coworker was Jim's main comedic theme is cracking jokes about food and him being pasty white. Oh, those words rang true as I saw through is performance in a theatre with the audience laughing away into the late evening. Yes, Jim Gaffigan is ghost white. I'd stood three feet away from him in the theater lobby & I felt this was Casper's sidekick. I would recommend folks to seek out Russell Peters, another comedian who will not let you leave until your stomach hurts from all the laughing done during his show. My last recommendation for comics is Maz Jobrani, an Irani-American that hails from Southern California, who is quite an entertainer and likes to address global issues without hesitation.
4. City segway tours. These tours comprise of segways, those electronic bikes that resemble a semi-skateboard where the person stands on them and lets the handles direct the course of their journey. Major cities offer such services to tourists so they can cruise through the city while sight seeing and making stops when needed. The prices do fluctuate for this activity due to season and demand. Depending on your preference, there is a tour guide that is available to show you around unless you and your partner choose to venture out on your own. Remember to bring back those segways, or else there's a pricey ramification waiting for you!
5. Wine Tasting Festivals. For avid wine drinkers there are festivals and wine-tasting events that occur at wineries as well as specialty shops during the warm weather. These take place throughout the year, only there is a greater turn out in outdoor events where people run into them while window shopping & touring around cities. Whether your preference is for white or red wine, there is enough variety to go around making everyone happy. Depending on the host, some venues do heavily enforce ID'ing their visitors before serving wine as well there are places that may limit the quantity of tastings for your safety (I've noticed this is more common in local shops). Usually there is a small fee to pay ranging from $5 and up where visitors are granted open access to the owner's selection of drinks. Just remember to remain hydrated if you choose to participate during the summer heat.
p.s. Did you know that Virgin America has a wine club "Virgin Wines" now? Check it out.
Here are five creative date ideas to consider as the Season of Love hits a high note:
1. Take your partner out to a sporting event, whether it is a basketball game at an arena, a baseball game at a stadium or an event of their choice. It is the ambiance that determines the mood at the event. With enough drinks, food and live entertainment there is not much room for things to go wrong. It is a relaxed atmosphere where couples can enjoy the event while socializing on the sidelines. If the person isn't a sports fanatic, there is always a first time experience for them. Sports, just like music, is what brings people together. Basically, keep the moment light and fun. Nothing beats experience, I must admit that I've enjoyed attending such games watching the Celtics, Spurs, Wizards and Lakers play (and I am not a sports fanatic). It's easy to let the excitement get to you when you're living in the moment.
2. Plan a weekend get away. Dependent upon how well you know your date along with your comfort level, it's exciting to vacate one's life for the weekend. There are many bed & breakfast in suburbia where couples can enjoy the view of nature, relax at a spa, go wine tasting and ultimately rest without any distractions. Some of these venues cost starting from $80 and up, depending on the location, season & type of rental.
3. It is nearly impossible for one to date a person who has no opinion or preference towards music. Concert season usually picks up during the spring and starts dying down as winter approaches. Take advantage of going to see world renown artists perform at arenas, conference centers and local venues (possibly right in your city). My recommendation is also give comedy clubs a try. I was invited to go see Jim Gaffigan in 2006 and I am glad that I did go. He was a rising comedian at that time with a following among the local clubs. All I was told by a coworker was Jim's main comedic theme is cracking jokes about food and him being pasty white. Oh, those words rang true as I saw through is performance in a theatre with the audience laughing away into the late evening. Yes, Jim Gaffigan is ghost white. I'd stood three feet away from him in the theater lobby & I felt this was Casper's sidekick. I would recommend folks to seek out Russell Peters, another comedian who will not let you leave until your stomach hurts from all the laughing done during his show. My last recommendation for comics is Maz Jobrani, an Irani-American that hails from Southern California, who is quite an entertainer and likes to address global issues without hesitation.
4. City segway tours. These tours comprise of segways, those electronic bikes that resemble a semi-skateboard where the person stands on them and lets the handles direct the course of their journey. Major cities offer such services to tourists so they can cruise through the city while sight seeing and making stops when needed. The prices do fluctuate for this activity due to season and demand. Depending on your preference, there is a tour guide that is available to show you around unless you and your partner choose to venture out on your own. Remember to bring back those segways, or else there's a pricey ramification waiting for you!
5. Wine Tasting Festivals. For avid wine drinkers there are festivals and wine-tasting events that occur at wineries as well as specialty shops during the warm weather. These take place throughout the year, only there is a greater turn out in outdoor events where people run into them while window shopping & touring around cities. Whether your preference is for white or red wine, there is enough variety to go around making everyone happy. Depending on the host, some venues do heavily enforce ID'ing their visitors before serving wine as well there are places that may limit the quantity of tastings for your safety (I've noticed this is more common in local shops). Usually there is a small fee to pay ranging from $5 and up where visitors are granted open access to the owner's selection of drinks. Just remember to remain hydrated if you choose to participate during the summer heat.
p.s. Did you know that Virgin America has a wine club "Virgin Wines" now? Check it out.
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Is Sexting Considered Cheating?
Men and women do yearn for a thrill when they are dating and engaging in relationships--ok--so most of us can relate to that at some point in time. Whether there are two people willing to shoot an intimate video during their horizontal tango, ménage-a-tois or solo act, there will "always" be a voyeur ready to sell you out. This voyeur may even include yourself! It is not a matter of if, it is more so a matter of when. The timer starts ticking the moment one releases such energy into the universe and then disperses these snippets into main stream media. Look at Anthony Weiner for example, I was aware he was guilty of such an act because his energy just reeks of guilt.
Does this fiasco make Weiner a bad man? No
Does it make him appear stupid? Oh very much so. Regardless to what degree he disclosed himself to his cyber ladies, this doesn't negate the fact that he crossed boundaries outside of his marriage.
People in committed relationships endure ramifications of infidelity when they choose to get emotionally involved with another person, act upon their physical desires, sexting (text messaging with sexual references) outside of their present relationship with a spouse or date, kissing (yes, kissing is cheating's cousin) and any behaviors that seek attention & affection from outside the individual's immediate relationship. It's common for couples to engage in such behaviors "within" their relationship where they are honoring one another and not committing these acts outside of their relationship. Still there is this danger of documented behaviors behind closed doors that come to see the light of day, again--it is only a matter of time. There is nothing private now a days, not even your sex life. To some degree, men and women do allude to their intimate life when he or she needs validation that their behaviors are normal, or per se more creative than the couple next door. Remember...at the end of the day, every best friend has a best friend.
Either one person will 'hear' about your activities while the lucky (or so not lucky) audience members will 'see' these acts being replayed all over the place. Trust me, it is a small world.
It's not as Weiner needed more publicity for his political career, the act itself is not a fair representation of his competency to serve the state of New York. However his reaction to when the scandal broke and how he addressed the matter clearly depicts that he will lie his way through anything until he realizes he will be caught anyway. It is his lying that hasn't sat well among his followers. This is probably one of his behaviors that have surfaced at this moment in time. His energy speaks volumes and I do not feel there are just a few of these audience members that have gotten hold of his bulge, or as his friend Jon Stewart commented regarding Weiner's twitpic that there is a lot of Anthony in there yet not much Weiner. I can only imagine how Stewart will greet Weiner the next time they meet. Regardless of their takes on this, Stewart does come off as a genuine friend of Weiner's who will hopefully enlighten Weiner how to keep his legs crossed when alone. Boys will be boys, though some boys need to be publicly humiliated to learn a good lesson.
Was Weiner aware that what he was doing wrong? I am confident 99% he knew he was taking a risk.
Does he fear the consequences? Yes
Will he pull through out of this? Yes although it may take a few 6-9 months for him to recover.
What was the wifes reaction? Probably horrified and ready to shove that phone up his...
As a proud Democrat, will Weiner win back my support? Hmm, not until I see a twitpic that i approve of :)
Until next time, control the bulge and make sure when you get a request for a head shot--it's not for the head south of the border!
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